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A trip to my happy place

15 Apr

After a luxuriously long weekend in Charlotte, I was overwhelmed by things I could blog about. Instead of a 14-page-long novella on the last few days, I’ve opted to instead write a post on things that make me happy. Obviously, this is not an exhaustive list, but simply a selection of what has recently left me satisfied and smiling. That’s what she said.

They may look ridiculous, but they sure are fun.

They may look ridiculous, but they sure are fun.

 

Smart Cars. If you’re ever having a bad day, just take a trip in one. Giggles and ridiculousness ensue. Therapists should recommend renting these things out by the hour as an alternative to anti-depressants. They’re just so silly; you can’t help but smile when you catch your reflection while driving one.  

New bras. Or just new underwear in general. But when you’ve lost about 15 pounds (depending on the scale…), the ladies need some new support. Let’s just say it’s been a while since I haven’t been able to fill out a bra. And a trip to Vicki’s (especially on Mom’s credit card) lifts more than your spirits.  

“That’s what she said” jokes. You know you’ve entered adulthood when you can make dirty jokes with your parents. ”Hurry up and put that in your mouth. I need your hands.” Also… ”His sword is bigger than yours.”

Old friends, new friends. It was great to catch up with my high school girlfriends, and awesome to realize I missed my Culpeper friends, too. I am truly blessed to have such amazing people in my life. 

Smokey Oats. Funny name, great preacher. Smokey, or “the breakfast cereal,” as my brother calls him, is serving as our church’s assistant priest until they find an interim. Always energetic, his sermons are worth listening to. He made a really good point Sunday when he said, “You can’t have Easter without Good Friday.” Nobody likes the Good Fridays of our lives, but we need them to truly appreciate the Easters. You’ve got to endure the worst before things get better. And believe me, things do get better. I promise. But you have to have faith. There’s a plan, even if you have no idea what it is yet. Keep the faith. 

People being excited to see you. Whether it’s seeing familiar faces in your hometown or meeting your possible future coworkers who are in desperate need of some extra help, it’s a great feeling when people are truly thrilled to see you. Who doesn’t love to feel loved and needed? 

G&Ts: refreshing and delicious.

G&Ts: refreshing and delicious.

 

G&Ts. Also, red wine. These are my two favorite drinks. There are others, but these are the classics. Looking forward to this summer when Dad will fix Mom and me our endless supply of gin & tonics — with extra lime, of course — despite the fact that he hates them. These are most often served during our week at the beach, although Mom and Dad are thinking of going to the mountains this summer instead. Not sure how I feel about that yet. 

Reimbursement checks from the DMV. Even if it’s only $16, it’s nice to get money back from the government. You just have to sell your car out of state after having just renewed the Virginia registration to get some of it back. Whatev. 

Getting over my fear of CiCi’s pizza. Not that I was ever really afraid of CiCi’s, but I ate at one for the first time Monday since being left at one in the 5th grade. I was at a birthday party and a friend and I were in the game room when the party upped and left, not realizing we weren’t with them. But I’m over it. Also, I don’t think I was missing anything having not been to a CiCi’s in nearly 15 years.

Azaleas. Or simply Charlotte in the springtime. The brilliant hues of blooming azalea bushes lining the streets and neighborhoods around the Queen City are stunning. I miss that; I have yet to see the magnitude of azalea blossoms elsewhere like those found in Charlotte. 

Deviled eggs. No explanation necessary.

An oldie but a goodie.

An oldie but a goodie.

 

Old Spice. I don’t know what it is, but something about that scent is magnificent. Keep it simple, guys. It took me a while to figure out it was Old Spice I liked so much, but I finally got my answer when I recently ran into a guy I hung out with some last summer. Catching a whiff, I remembered how much it drove me nuts, and I had to ask him what he was wearing. I laughed when he confessed it was simply Old Spice I’d been pining for all this time.

Although I’m still a little perplexed as to why a pair of my pajama pants (that have been sitting clean and folded in a drawer for weeks) were steeped in the scent when I pulled them out last night. And it has nothing to do with that guy — or any other, for that matter. At least not as far as I’m aware. It’s possible someone is breaking into my apartment and wearing my clothes, then folding them up and putting them neatly away in my drawers. Weird. The mystery should probably bother me more than it does, but then I smell them and I don’t really care how they came to smell that way. 

Clean sheets. There are few things more comforting than crisp, clean sheets, especially when washed and folded with love. Although one thing better would have been for the sheets fairy to have magically made up my bed for me. That hasn’t happened since I left home. Funny how that works. 

Wegmans. A friend and I spent nearly three hours at Wegmans today. We decided we just wanted to get the heck out of Culpeper, and opted to go north. We ended up there after an overpriced lunch at a Tex-Mex grill in Gainsville, and spent the rest of the afternoon soaking up the grandeur that is Wegmans. I’d been twice before, but this was his first trip. He doubted at first, but quickly learned: never doubt Wegmans. 

From obscure beers to inexpensive Spanish reds, this store has it all. Not to mention the dining area, complete with an Asian bar, a gelato/coffee shop and a seafood restaurant. After thoroughly exploring all that the grocery area had to offer, we enjoyed a glass of red wine and some crab soup before a few scoops of cool mint chocolate gelato and rich coffee. Gym tomorrow, I promise. 

Ok, that’s enough for now. Happy hump day.

I always thought it was Monday Thursday

10 Apr

After a 5+ hour drive down U.S. 29 through some of God’s country (and some of hell’s traffic), I made it home to Charlotte this afternoon to celebrate Easter weekend with the fam. Being Maundy Thursday — although as a kid who didn’t think it was called “Monday Thursday”? — we headed to church for one of my favorite services before having our traditional dinner with my best friend’s family. 

I’m guessing most people don’t have Maundy Thursday traditions, but I think my parents invented this one a few years ago as an excuse to eat fried chicken with friends. Who doesn’t? So somehow it evolved into an annual thing with our families. Everyone meets at church and then heads to our house for some Bojangles’ (YUM) or BBQ. 

you know youre in the south when...

you know you're in the south when...

As an Episcopalian, our Maundy Thursday service has always struck a chord with me. As a child, I remembered it as the “cool service” when the clergy and acolytes strip the altar, leaving it barren and somber in preparation for Good Friday. As a teen, I served as an acolyte and always felt a strange sense of service while silently packing away the candles and crosses into the sacristy. And now, after having missed this service for the last five years (I know, I could just as easily have gone in Richmond or Culpeper, but I never did), I am reminded of why I looked forward this particular day during Holy Week. 

To avoid getting super religious, because that’s not my goal in the least, I will simply relay the simple but poignant message of this day: to serve one another, and in turn, love one another. That’s it. You don’t have to be a Christian to do that — and I know quite a few Christians who don’t, myself included. It’s a simple commandment, but a difficult one to follow.

We get so caught up in the petty, insignificant mishaps in our lives that most often could be resolved or avoided by simply stopping and reminding ourselves to love one another. But I don’t want to get preachy here, because let’s face it, I’m just as guilty of being petty and catty and judgmental as the next person. The truth is, being bitchy sometimes is just more fun. But where does it get you? 

Now, this service at my church — although beautiful — has gotten a little weird over the years and now includes getting your feet washed and washing others, if you so choose. It’s symbolic, I get it, but I always opt to sit tight and let others handle the footbaths. Although Mom and I are going for a pedi tomorrow — guess we could have gotten a quick one for free!

 

I googled for a pic of a pedi. This came back. Hopefully no one getting a foot washing showed up with these...

I googled pics of pedicures. This came back. Hopefully no one getting their feet washed showed up with these...

 

Aside from the white plastic water basins that look so out of place among the stained glass windows and wooden pews, the Maundy Thursday service is painfully beautiful. From the darkened, empty sanctuary to the soloist singing “Were you there when they crucified my Lord” (gets me every time), it’s hard to miss the message.

However, most kids have difficulty focusing, including the 7 or 8 year old boy a few rows up who spent a majority of the prayers facing the rear of the church making peace signs, gun gestures and wannabe gang symbols, completely unaware that my entire family was about to pee our pants watching him. Don’t think that that didn’t come up again later during the BBQ dinner, thanks to my best friend’s dad and a couple glasses of wine. Love our get-togethers. 

I’ll leave you with a verse from “The Servant Song,” which really resonated with me after the past month I’ve had and the unbelievable amount of support I’ve received. To everyone who’s been there for me in one way or another, know that I will always do the same for you.  

I will weep when you are weeping; when you laugh I’ll laugh with you. I will share your joy and sorrow ’til we’ve seen this journey through. 

So next time you’re ready to scream at the 72-year-old lady who just pulled out in front of you or your inept imbecile of a coworker who defies your every request (that’s clearly not an example of mine, as I am currently unemployed…), just remember what the preacher-man said: love one another

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